that that's said.
When you're in the military
it feels like you have two lives
because the military ethos
and the military family if you like
and the lifestyle and the just the way of life
and how we life and interact
and especially in the early days
when you live in the mess and things,
there just certain things
that fit within the military space
that perhaps civilian people just don't understand
and it goes even to sense of humor
and things like that
because we thrive on banter, for example,
and there are some things
that I'd sit and have a laugh about
with my friends in the military
that actually my civilian friends wouldn't get.
So, sometimes it really does feel like you live two lives
especially in my family and friends' backgrounds,
there isn't a lot of them that are in the military,
although I've now acquired friends if you like
that have become quite close to me
that are also in the military
but there two different sides it feels sometimes.
